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I have walked the path to freedom from suffering, and I share with you the way. Through cultivating mindfulness, wisdom, and compassion, you too can find profound peace within your own mind. These teachings are a balm for the heart and a guide for living together harmoniously, even when the world around us is shaken.
How to Observe the Mind Without Being Carried Away
March 1st 511 BCE
I have seen that much of our suffering arises not from the world itself, but from our own minds, which are like wild horses pulling us in every direction. We are tossed about by waves of desire, aversion, and confusion. But there is a way to find a calm island within. This practice is not about silencing the mind, for that is like trying to flatten the ocean. Instead, it is about learning to sit on the shore and watch the waves of thought and feeling as they rise and fall. By doing so, we learn their nature—that they are impermanent, and that they are not our true self. This is the path to clarity and peace, even amidst life's greatest storms.
You will need:
A quiet place, free from interruption. The shade of a large tree or a simple, uncluttered room is sufficient.
A comfortable and stable seat, such as a cushion or folded blanket, that allows your spine to be upright without strain.
A set period of time. Begin with a short duration, perhaps as long as it takes for an incense stick to burn down.
A spirit of gentle patience. You would not scold a young sprout for not yet being a tree. Be just as kind to your mind.
The intention to simply observe, without the need to fix, change, or judge what arises in your awareness.
1. Establish a Noble Posture
Sit with your legs crossed comfortably, or on a low bench if that serves you better. Let your spine rise straight but not stiff, like a stack of golden coins. Rest your hands in your lap. Allow your body to become still. This posture is a vessel for awareness.
2. Find the Anchor of the Breath
Gently close your eyes and bring your attention to the feeling of your own breath. Notice the air as it enters your nostrils and as it leaves. Do not try to control it. Simply let it be your anchor, the place to which you can always return.
3. Recognize the Wandering Mind
Sooner or later, your mind will wander away from the breath. It will be carried off by a memory, a plan, or a sound. This is not a mistake. The very moment you realize you have been thinking is a moment of pure awareness. Smile gently at this realization.
4. Gently Note the Distraction
Without struggle, make a soft mental note of what has captured your attention. 'Thinking.' 'Worrying.' 'Hearing.' Use simple, one-word labels. This act of naming tames the thought, allowing you to see it clearly without becoming entangled in its story.
5. Observe the Arising and Passing Away
Watch this thought or feeling as you would a cloud in the sky. Notice that it appears, remains for a time, and then dissolves. It has no solid core. Seeing this directly, you understand the truth of impermanence in your own experience.
6. Return Gently to the Breath
Having noted the distraction and seen its nature, kindly and without force, guide your attention back to the anchor of your breath. You may need to do this a hundred times. Each return is a strengthening of the muscle of mindfulness.
7. Cultivate Boundless Kindness
Throughout this practice, hold an attitude of friendliness (maitrī) toward yourself. If you feel frustration or restlessness, note it as 'frustration' and meet it with kindness. This gentleness is the soil in which wisdom grows.
8. Conclude with Awareness
When your time is done, remain seated for a moment longer. Notice the state of your mind and body. Offer a moment of gratitude for this time you have given yourself. Resolve to carry this quiet awareness into the next moments of your day.
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