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As a student of the forms and a keen observer of the world, I have sought to understand the very nature of reality and the principles that govern a virtuous life and a well-ordered polis. Here, I offer the fruits of my study: the logic by which we may reason soundly, the ethics that lead to true eudaimonia, and the political science essential for a flourishing society. Let us rebuild with reason as our foundation.
A Method for Cultivating Civic Friendship
February 11th 345 BCE
Last updated December 18th 2025
A city, or polis, is not merely a place of shared habitation, but a partnership for living well. Yet this partnership cannot endure through laws alone; it requires a bond between citizens that I call civic friendship. This is not the fleeting affection based on pleasure, nor the calculated bond of utility. It is a shared goodwill, where citizens wish the best for one another for the sake of the common good. Such a bond is the surest defense against faction and tyranny, and the very foundation of a just and resilient community. I shall here delineate the reasoned steps by which this highest form of social concord may be intentionally fostered.
You will need:
A Common Aim: Citizens who agree on the fundamental purpose of their community—the pursuit of a virtuous and flourishing life for all.
A Manageable Population: A community small enough that citizens may know one another's character, for one cannot be friends with a faceless multitude.
A Commitment to Reasoned Speech: The willingness of all to engage in deliberation and persuasion, rather than resorting to force or coercion.
Shared Spaces for Assembly: Designated places, such as an agora or public square, where citizens can gather to discuss, decide, and reinforce their common identity.
A Foundation of Justice: Basic laws and customs that ensure fairness in exchange and rectify wrongs, so that trust may have fertile ground in which to grow.
Time for Civic Engagement (Schole): Citizens must possess sufficient leisure from the mere necessities of survival to devote their minds and energies to public affairs.
1. Deliberate and Define Your Common Good
Gather the citizens. Through reasoned discourse, determine the shared values and goals that will define your community. What virtues will you honor? What sort of life do you seek to enable? This shared vision is the north star for all subsequent actions.
2. Establish Regular Public Discourse
Create a fixed time and place for citizens to assemble and debate matters of public concern. Whether it is a new law or a plan for the harvest, all who are affected should have a voice. True friendship grows from shared deliberation, not silent obedience.
3. Undertake Common Works and Celebrations
The bond of friendship is strengthened by shared experience. Work together to build a wall, dig a well, or raise a barn. Likewise, celebrate harvests, victories, and religious rites as one. In shared labor and shared joy, the 'I' begins to transform into the 'we.'
4. Educate the Young in Shared Virtues
The character of a community is not inherited but taught. Establish a system for instructing children in the virtues your polis has chosen to honor—courage, moderation, justice. A good person is the prerequisite for a good citizen and a true friend.
5. Practice Justice with Goodwill
When conflicts arise, as they inevitably will, apply the law not with cold severity but with a view to restoring concord. The aim of civic justice is not merely to punish, but to re-establish the balance that allows friendship to thrive once more.
6. Publicly Honor Virtuous Action
When a citizen acts with exceptional courage, generosity, or wisdom for the benefit of all, make their praise a public matter. By honoring virtue, you teach all to recognize it and aspire to it, reinforcing the very foundation of the best kind of friendship.
7. Choose Leaders Who Embody This Friendship
A leader must be the community's chief friend. When choosing magistrates or leaders, look first to their character. Do they seek the common good over their own? Do they deal justly and temperately with others? A virtuous leader will nurture virtue and friendship in all.
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