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How to Welcome the Stranger and Make Your Tribe Whole
December 7th 27 CE
Last updated November 22nd 2025
I tell you a truth: a community is like a field. If you only plant one kind of seed, it may fail in a drought. But if you welcome new seeds, your harvest will be abundant and strong against hardship. This is the way to receive newcomers, not with a suspicion that poisons the soul, but with a wisdom that protects the flock. For when you welcome the stranger, you may be welcoming a messenger from my Father. I will show you how to offer hospitality with a discerning heart, turning an outsider into a brother or sister, and making your foundation as strong as a rock.
You will need:
A council of elders with discerning hearts, not hardened by rule but softened by wisdom.
A portion of bread and clean water, always set aside for the unexpected guest.
A simple guest shelter, clean and safe, separate from the main community dwellings.
Two or three trusted community members to act as welcomers, known for their gentleness.
A clear understanding of your community's guiding ways, to be shared honestly.
A humble spirit in all members, prepared to serve rather than to be served.
1. First, Observe from a Distance
Like a shepherd watches for a lost sheep, observe the traveler before they arrive. Do they approach openly or with stealth? Is their need genuine? The body often speaks more truth than the tongue. Do not rush to judgment, but be still and see.
2. Send Forth a Welcome of Peace
Choose two or three of your most gentle and wise members. They should not carry weapons, but a vessel of water. An open hand and a gift of water show you come in peace, disarming fear before it can take root in the heart.
3. Ask with an Honest Heart
Have your welcomers ask three questions: ‘Where have you journeyed from?’, ‘What path do you seek now?’, and ‘What does your heart hope to find with us?’ Listen not just to the words, but to the spirit behind them.
4. Offer Hospitality Outside the Gates
Bring them to the guest shelter. Give them bread to eat and wash the dust from their feet. This act of service shows your community’s character and allows you to tend to their needs while keeping the main flock safe and watchful.
5. Let the Elders Seek Wisdom
Your welcomers must then report what they have seen and heard to the council of elders. In the counsel of many, there is safety. Let them pray and speak together to discern the stranger’s intent, for a wolf can sometimes wear the fleece of a sheep.
6. Test the Spirit Through Shared Work
If the elders feel peace, invite the stranger to stay for three days. Ask them to help with a simple community task, like mending a net or tending the garden. A tree is known by its fruit; a person is known by their works and their willingness to serve.
7. Break Bread at the Common Table
Invite the newcomer to a meal with the community. Watch how they interact with the children and the elderly. Do they take the best portion for themselves or ensure others have enough? The heart is revealed when bread is shared.
8. Find Their Place Within the Body
If their spirit proves true after these trials, speak with them about the gifts God has given them. Every person is a part of the body, and each part has a purpose. Find how their gifts can strengthen your community, for a net is made stronger by every cord.
9. Welcome Them as Your Own
Finally, gather all your people. Announce that this person, once a stranger, is now a brother or sister. Let them affirm your community's principles. This public act makes the covenant real and completes their journey from outsider to family.
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